Mark experienced this personally when we went to the Cathedral of the Holy Spirit for some talks on St. John's account of the Passion.
This is pretty silly reasoning, even for these hippies who are still stuck in the cursed 1960's to 70's. Jesus said take and eat. Sigh...
On the first day, Mark went up and genuflected and received from Fr. FA, on the tongue. So far so good.
But on the 2nd day, Mark was in a lady communion minister's line. He was flatly refused communion on the tongue and was asked to take Him in the hand. Not wanting to cause a scene, Mark obliged.
The woman communion minister(going up the steps) who denied Mark his right to receive Holy Communion on the tongue.
Liturgical abuse, for Mark, has never been so personal. Mark's account of this can be found here.
Deus caritas est? It's time for Deus to kick some ass if you ask me.